Even the best-intentioned people make promises they can’t keep. If
I stopped looking for a job each time I was promised something, I
would be years away from where I want to be. During a discussion at a
local career center, I was once asked the question, “What do you do while
you’re waiting for the company to get back to you? They (the company)
said it would be two or three months.” I hope my response wasn’t too
sharp when I said, “I would call my next lead.” Between having positions
cancelled or being led to believe that I was the top candidate for a job only
to find it had been given to someone else, I learned not to stop looking
until I had an actual start date and a contract in hand.
One person in my network recommends having at least four serious
leads. The definition of serious is not one that you hope will come to fruition,
but one that you feel there is a real chance of landing. I agree for the
most part, except I wouldn’t put a number on it. I take an interpretation
of a serious lead, well, very seriously, but I can’t take it as an ironclad
promise. My job looking for a job continued until I was 100 percent sure
the job offer was made and accepted. Even on the day I received my most
recent job offer, the HR person said they had to finalize a few things. I
continued my search until the actual offer was in writing in front of me.
I’m a trusting, but realistic, person—I know things change or that there
can be miscommunication.
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